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The Real Estate Deal My Son Laughed At
A Powerful Lesson About Opportunities Hidden In Plain Sight
How many times have looked at something and immediately thought, “This is worthless,” only to have someone else see a goldmine?
That’s exactly what happened when I took my young son to see my latest real estate acquisition.
His reaction? “What piece of JUNK did you buy, dad? Why waste your money on this?”
I couldn’t help but laugh.
In that moment, I saw a perfect teaching opportunity — not just about real estate, but about life itself.
How is it possible that my son and I were looking at exactly the same property. Same walls, same roof, same “ruins” as he called them. Yet what he saw as a complete waste of money, while I saw as a golden opportunity?
I wonder how many incredible opportunities I have simply missed because I was stuck in my own limited perspective!
It’s incredible how our reality isn’t just about what’s in front of us — but about how we process what we see.
Think about it:
- When someone gives feedback: One person can hear constructive advice while another can feel personally attacked
- When spending time on a project: One person sees investment while another sees waste of time.
- When facing a challenge: One person can see a dead end, while another sees an…